Does sensuality scare you?
When you meet someone who is really, truly, sexy--someone who lives in their body more than they live in their head--do you feel your feet shake in your boots? Does your heart flutter and your mind lash out in jealousy, when really your heart is just trying to cry out, “hey, that’s inside of you, too?"
Does your sexuality scare you?
Do you have difficulty reaching orgasm? Is your sex life a yawn? Are you too shy to dance, or do you believe that you can’t? Do you feel guilty for seeking pleasure?
If any of this is connecting, you could be disconnected from your sensuality.
We are sensual, sexual beings. Sensuality and sexuality go hand in hand but are not one in the same. Sensuality represents our ability to seek, give, and receive pleasure to and from our physical bodies. Sensuality means being present; it is the feeling of being dropped into our brilliant bodies (and staying there).
Sensuality lives in the pelvis, which is the sacral chakra. This is, of course, also where sexuality lives in our bodies. Interestingly, creativity also lives here. When we turn ourselves on sensually, sexually and creatively, everything flows. Our lives just work.
As is true for most things, if you don’t use your sensuality, you lose it.
We are our most full selves when we allow every part of our essences to shine. And like it or not, we are sensual, sexual, creative beings. By not taking care of ourselves in all contexts, we cannot show up in the world as caring individuals.
Loving yourself is not selfish--in fact it is self-serving. Connecting to your sensual energy is a fast track to get your whole being moving and grooving towards the life of your dreams.
Ready to step into your brilliance?
Read this to begin!